My sweet 16 is in 10 days! and i need some HUGE help!party ideas,? invitations?entertainment????? PLEASE HELP!

MY 16TH Birthday is in 10 days! im inviting around 30 people.most are family, friends from church a d some from school. my colors are dark pink, pale pink&Gold. iwant it to look very fancy, oldfasion&tail all at the same time. im using gold silver ware, white plates w. gold lining. and im gonna try to go to tj max and find some champane fluets.tea lights and lots of tuel.rose petals and a plastic pink carpet. i want tealights everywere and my party will be at night. since i wont have dancing what kind of genre music should i have? franie j? more oldie but elegant. and what kind of activities can we do? i have older sisters so maybe there friends can put on a fasion show?my 2 older brothers will be butlers and serve stuff and open the door.:) im on a budget so i cant overspend? any ideas?thanks. my friends arent use to no dancing parties so i need big help!